Saturday, October 31, 2009

Enter to win a BOOK A MONTH FOR 2010!!!

Scary, Sexy, or Slutty for Halloween - Which are you?

So Halloween... We get to dress up.... It is a weekend so we get to party...  We get to dress up...
For the dressing up there are a few ways to appoach costume selection.  Scary?  Sexy?  Or down right Slutty?  Cause if it is a costume you're not really a slut right?
Here are some photos from last years Halloween Parade in West Hollywood.
Be Prepared!!!


So What are YOU Wearing Today?!?

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Sunday, October 25, 2009

Pink Buttercream Frosting - Book Review

For anyone who does not know, this is the fabulous book that inspired 9 days of giveaways here on Naughty in the Backseat.  Find out more about this Cupcake Scavenger Hunt - Here



 PINK BUTTERCREAM FROSTING
BY LISSA MATTHEWS



Aidn Greer is a much-sought-after Dominant in the BDSM lifestyle with an unusual problem. He hasn’t owned a submissive in more years than he cares to think about. He’s bored with unchallenging women, yet mentoring other Doms and training subs has left him cold as well. He’s craving something other than plain old vanilla—a taste of something sinfully sweet that, for once, he can really sink his teeth into.


Professional cake baker Bailey Harris wasted ten years bored to tears with her marriage, enduring a job she hated, and harboring a secret desire for something passionate, fulfilling and dark. Then she found it…in the world of BDSM. Exploring on her own brought the kind of mind-opening experiences that led her to declare her independence—and exposed a yearning to find the one Dom for whom she’s willing to kneel. Permanently.


When Aidn and Bailey meet, it’s fire and ice. Sugar and spice. And an experience that satisfies every detail of both their fantasies. Almost. While the big, beautiful sub is everything Aidn wanted, her fierce independent streak could be more of a challenge than he bargained for…


REVIEW BY -  LUCIA SARTO
4.5/5

I cannot even be coy about this review, so here it goes, CAUTION: Pink Buttercream Frosting is one of the HOTTEST BOOKS I have ever read. Do not read this at work, you will embarrass yourself.

Pink Buttercream Frosting is the story of a Dominant who has been disillusioned with love and relationships, who sees an unlikely candidate for his love, and fights his passion for her, fights the draw, fights his feelings, while simultaneously staking his claim. Both characters have been burned in the past, and their draw to each other, their emotional scars make them more realistic as characters as does their obvious reluctance to open up emotionally to each other, however their clear chemistry and undeniable passion makes this one of the steamiest books I have read recently. With this one book, Lissa Matthews has made a fan out of me. She has managed to take the difficult to write about world of BDSM and turned it into an amazingly hot, easily understood situation for everyone involved. Simply put, an amazingly well developed story, super hot interactions, and realistically flawed characters make you root for everyone involved.

Visit Lissa Matthews' Site to find out more - http://www.lissamatthews.com  

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Friday, October 23, 2009

Cupcake Prizes Take a Peek


Here Are a list and photos of the prizes you can win so far and they are YUMMY!
Don't forget to drop and enter to win a Book A Month for 2010 and a Cupcake Care Package!

Wednesday - October 21st - still available

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Who could not resist trying to lick some icing off of these beautifully real looking cupcake candles? It's too bad to because they smell even better! Made with %100 Soy Wax. Surprise that special someone with a delicious cupcake soy candle. 


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Win a Hand Made Cupcake Hat. 

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Thursday October 22, Prizes


We specialize in vintage inspired aprons for adults and children. The apron styles are all ORIGINAL Boojiboo designs, we make our own patterns to ensure a perfect fit, do not be fooled by imitations. Make sure you own the original apron with the sweetheart neckline, flared skirt, and fitted bust!!!
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Win an amazing art piece as a bag - I want it and I am very jealous of the winner!

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Sleepless in Scotland
By Karen Hawkins
In the fourth book in the MacLean series, the older of twin sisters tries to save her twin from running off with a Maclean, ending up trapped herself.


No Choice But Seduction
By Johanna Lindsey
In Johanna Lindsey’s sizzling Malory novel, Katey Tyler uncovers a kidnapping plot—but doesn’t realize her heart will be taken prisoner as well.


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Thursday, October 22, 2009

The Real Pink Buttercream Frosting by Lissa Matthews



Now, let me just say…buttercream frosting is NOT supposed to be fat free or reduced calorie or contain any ingredient that would be considered a ‘diet’ food. Why not? Because frosting is decadent, rich, fluffy, delicious, and yes, even at times very wicked.
My recipe is a version of the recipe I was given when I took cake decorating classes, though I don’t follow either as closely as I follow the taste and consistency I am looking for. I have been making this for so many years now that I know by sight and taste if it’s right.
To get the pink color: there are a couple of different ways to do this. One is to add a drop at a time of red food coloring until you get the color you’re looking for. Red coloring doesn’t generally make the frosting red, just deeper and deeper shades of pink. There are also jars of gel colorings that you can purchase at craft stores like Michael’s, A.C. Moore, Hobby Lobby, etc… Wilton has a whole line of supplies and colors. The lightest pink you can find is the one you want. And just like with the red food coloring, a little dab will do. The colorings, whether food coloring or gel colorings, will not change the flavor of the frosting.
You will notice also, before adding the coloring, that the frosting isn’t pure white. It’s because you’ve added butter and vanilla. There is clear vanilla flavoring that can be used, however, I simply prefer the taste of pure vanilla extract. To get a pure white frosting, you would omit the butter and use 1 cup of solid vegetable shortening and a butter flavoring. Again, my personal preference is the real butter. The clear vanilla flavoring and the butter flavoring can be purchased at craft stores though.
So, let’s get started…

Ingredients:
1 stick of unsalted butter brought to room temperature (unsalted, because this way you can control the amount of salt in your recipes)
½ Cup of solid vegetable shortening (regular Crisco or store brand or Wesson solid vegetable shortening, not Lard and not butter flavor Crisco)
1-2 T water
1 T meringue powder/dry egg whites (this can be found down the baking aisle in most stores. It is not necessary to the recipe, but it does whip up smoother and fluffier with it)
3-4 C sifted powdered sugar (4X or 10X, I have found that it does not matter)
¼ Cup milk or half and half (you can use water here as well, but the milk/half and half make it creamier)
1 t vanilla extract (add a little more if it’s not enough of a vanilla flavor for you)
Pinch of salt (start with just a small pinch, this will be to taste, to cut the sweetness of the frosting, not to add a salty flavor)
Coloring

Directions:
With an electric hand mixer or electric stand mixer, cream butter and shortening until well blended, adding 1T water. Sift powdered sugar and meringue powder. Add to the butter and shortening, little by little (I use a large serving spoon, one spoonful at a time until it’s all incorporated). You’ll notice that the frosting will get thick and hard to mix so add 1 tablespoon of milk until it becomes the consistency you want, which is spreadable. Add your vanilla, mix well, then add a dash of salt.
The last step is to add your coloring. A drop at a time, mix well. If you are adding icing color from the jar, take a toothpick, dip it in the color, then swirl it through the frosting. Mix completely with the mixer. The color we’re looking for is pale pink, just a shade or two darker than white but enough to know that it’s pink.

I usually whip the frosting at medium speed for about 2-5 minutes until it’s nice and fluffy. If you do not plan to use the frosting immediately, cover it and put it in the refrigerator. It has butter and milk, enough said. When you are ready to use it, take it out and let it soften, then re-whip it to get the fluffiness back.
Homemade frosting tastes nothing like the icing in the can at the store, so if you taste it and think ‘This isn’t right. The jar frosting tastes different’ it’s okay. It’s not supposed to taste the same.

This is a vanilla buttercream that can be used on any flavor cake.
Feel free to email me at lissa@lissamatthews.com if you have any questions.

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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Free Cupcake - Book Giveaway - 9 Days of Free Stuff

9 Days of Giveaways From Romance in the Backseat and Naughty in the Backseat!

I get to claim a little credit, but there are three other blogs and twenty authors involved.  It is a Pink Buttercream Frosted Cupcake Giveaway.  It starts October 21st - my B-day and runs to the 30th - oddly enough another of the bloggers Birthday.  (The fabulous Cecile from All I Want and More)  It is a scavenger hunt.  Search the six sites listed daily for the Prize Logos of the day.  Find the logo - click on it and enter to win.

Prizes?  Cupcakes of course!  We have cupcake hats, cupcake bags, cupcake aprons, cupcake candles, and actual cupcakes that will be shipped to your door thanks to the Cupcake Station.   Throw in a few books from Simon and Schuster and to top it off the grand prize is a book a month for 2010 and a cupcake goody bag!



Wanna play - check out all the details at http://www.romanceinthebackseat.com/cupcakegiveaway.htm
Want extra chances to win the Grand Prize?  Blog about the Giveaway - tweet - Face Book - My Space - Post the cupcake badge and link and let us know about it at RITBSDoni@gmail.com  Better yet buy a book or item from any of the participating stores or authors and get 10 extra chances to win.  Email proof of purchase to the email listed.



All you authors out there I have something Special for you.  A chance to win three months of ads on Romance in the Backseat and two lucky winners will receive a banner ad designed by - Creations By Kendra (http://www.creationsbykendra.com/)

I can not wait to hear from you!
Terry Kate
Http://www.romanceinthebackseat.com

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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Lissa Matthews Guest Blogs

Tagline: Desire: Blend sinful with sweet. Whip to perfection. Don't forget to lick the spoon...

I am excited about my new Samhain Publishing release Pink Buttercream Frosting. Sounds very decadent, doesn't it? It's a little naughty, too. But then, there's nothing wrong with that, is there?

Inspired by it's namesake, pink buttercream frosting and the most delicious scented lotion by the very same name, this book brings together the world of BDSM and the warm fragrance of vanilla and cream, sure to heat you up in one way or the other.

Here's the blurb:


Aidn Greer is a much-sought-after Dominant in the BDSM lifestyle with an unusual problem. He hasn’t owned a submissive in more years than he cares to think about. He’s bored with unchallenging women, yet mentoring other Doms and training subs has left him cold as well. He’s craving something other than plain old vanilla—a taste of something sinfully sweet that, for once, he can really sink his teeth into.
Professional cake baker Bailey Harris wasted ten years bored to tears with her marriage, enduring a job she hated, and harboring a secret desire for something passionate, fulfilling and dark. Then she found it…in the world of BDSM. Exploring on her own brought the kind of mind-opening experiences that led her to declare her independence—and exposed a yearning to find the one Dom for whom she’s willing to kneel. Permanently.
When Aidn and Bailey meet, it’s fire and ice. Sugar and spice. And an experience that satisfies every detail of both their fantasies. Almost. While the big, beautiful sub is everything Aidn wanted, her fierce independent streak could be more of a challenge than he bargained for…
Warning: This book brings together scorching-hot counter sex, decadent pink frosting, and no-holds-barred BDSM play for a spanking good time. Be sure to bring an ice-cold drink along…
I hope you'll take a peek, read the excerpt on the website and give it a try!

Lissa

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Lissa Matthews
Erotic Romance Author
www.lissamatthews.com
The Demon is an Angel, Ellora's Cave, Available Now!
Pink Buttercream Frosting, Samhain Publishing, October 20, 2009
Sugar Rush, Loose Id, January 2010

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Thursday, October 15, 2009

Boss's Day - Create your own Story

To Celebrate National Boss's Day (which is tomorrow) I have decided to start a story about a guilty reading pleasure of mine.  Getting it on in the office.

I started it- we will all work on it together - no swear words and I will be monitoring it and the comments then adding them in to the post as the story goes on.  Spicy - but nothing to hot.  If your post does not make it up it likely was too naughty.



Title as yet to be determined-


Skirts were not meant to be this sexy.  No one would be that cruel, and yet here he was trapped behind his desk, again.  This was worse then high school. 
Derick had become used to his morning wood arriving exactly one hour and fifteen minutes after he woke up.  At the same time big brown eyes met his and lit up as he walked through the doors of the office.   Barely controlled red brown hair teased his fingers.  And well, it was a blessing that she was seated behind the reception desk.  Lavender Brown, and yes parents can be mean, was Derick Black's very own kryptonite. 
"Good morning Lavender."
"Good morning Mr. Black."
That was their usual daily interaction. 
                                           By Terry Kate


Being stuck behind his desk sucked; but it was better than having everyone see his tented pants. Finally, after staring at account sheets for nearly a half an hour, he was able to convince his body to "calm" down. He needed it calm, because at ten sharp she would come in his office and go over the days agenda. And like clock work, her scent hit him before she crossed the threshold. She smelled exotic and sweet; and tasty. Damnit, he scowled himself. His body immediately responding to her scent. He shifted in his seat and looked up to see the most gorgeous smile he ever saw. He was about to come unglued right there.
A diversion, that is what he needed. Coffee never looked so good. He slowly got up from his behind his desk and walk over to the coffee pot. With not quiet so steady hands, he poured himself a cup. He need something to put his hands on other than her. Something to put him mouth on besides hers. He poured his coffee and drank with a vengeance. Crap!!! It was hot! That did the trick. His body was reacting to the coffee now.

                                                  By Cecile - All I Want and More
Lavender came up beside him and held out a cup. Derick poured her some coffee. He rushed to put the pot down so that he wouldn't focus on her full lips. He sat and gestured for her to do the same. Clearing his throat, he looked at the pile of papers before him. "Today's agenda?" he asked.

Lavender leaned forward and grabbed the first piece of paper, her button-down shirt unbuttoned one too many buttons than was professional. "First, there..."

Derick didn't hear her. His eyes kept looking downward and then back up to her lips. I can't concentrate. He took another gulp of his coffee and spewed the hot liquid. Still too hot.

Lavender rushed to get some napkins and began to blot the mess from his clothes.
 
                                                                                     Nicole Zoltack - Author's Site 
"I-I've got it. Th-thank you," Derick sputtered. But he didn't really mean it. He reached up to take the napkin from her soft, delicate and ringless hand, and inadvertently brushed against her taut blouse. His mind immediately recalled the old the legal joke, "When does a secretary become a fixture?" He couldn't help but answer himself, murmuring, "when she's nailed on a desk."

"Did you say something, Mr. Black?"

"I, er, yes, uh, is the mail on the desk?"

"Of course," she purred leaning slightly further over, "it's in your in box as always."

Derick leaned forward to see the mail, but found himself staring into the deep recesses of Ms. Brown's barely concealed treasures. Derick snapped his eyes away and found himself staring at his out box. Lavender leaned back, and Derick turned his gaze back to the in box. IN. OUT. IN. This was not helping matters
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                                                           By Doni Miller Reviewer RITBS 
"Mr. Black, are you all right?" Lavender asked as she walked back toward him and rested a hand on his shoulder. That one touch had Derick starting to hyperventilate and the tent in his pants just got larger than it was before. He shifted around in his chair trying to relieve some of strain in his pants without Lavender knowing about it.

"Of course I'm all right, Lavender." He said as he tried not to feel the heat her hand was radiated on his shoulder. "Why don't we go over some of the things on today's agenda since I have to leave the office a bit earlier today?"

"Of course, Mr. Black." She said as she took up her legal pad and went to sit on top of Derick's desk. She usually sat in the chair across from his desk but today she seemed a bit femme fatale. It reminded him of this show that his sister used to watched called the Nanny, where Fran would walk into Maxwell’s office in one of her tight outfits and sits on his desk being seductive and charming.

"Well…" Lavender purred near Derick’s ears but at the same moment he turned around and their lips instantly met. It started out as a touching of their lips but then it grew into a steamy hot deeper kiss that had them both breathing heavy.

                                               Phoebe Jordan, blog author of Talk About My Favorite Authors 
“I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have..”
Lavendar pressed a finger to his lips. “I wanted you too.”
He resisted the urge to suck her finger into his mouth. “We can’t do this here.” He stood grateful that he had a private office in the back. “I’ve imagined having you on this desk ever since I hired you. Do you know how tempting you are?” He kissed her again, pulled her body to his, “Your slightly too short skirts, curve hugging skirts. Those damned high heels…” Derick captured her mouth with his and he allowed himself to give into his wants for a moment. His hands gripped her behind, his tongue slipped passed her lips and she let out a soft moan. Hungrily, he drank her in, her body arched into his touch.

                                                               By Angelque Ford, http://angelequeford.com
             Ha.  Derick might not have recognized her at her old job.  Receptionists working in the Greenwood Construction Headquarters, a double wide trailer, were not required to dress up for work.  Hell, there were days she rolled out of bed- added deodorant and a bra and went to work in her jammies.  The trailer had no insulation and the only thing keeping her warm on the coldest winter days were thermals under fleece and three pairs of socks.
     Not here.  The office building was set for the usual seventy two degrees when she started working here - now it was at a cheery and comfortable seventy six in the main lobby.  One morning Derick had arrived early to work and caught her wearing her thin leather gloves and thick sweater while typing up some paperwork.  
      "Ms. Brown, are you cold?"  

    Lavender had never turned so red in her life.  She tended to be cold, but the vent right above her desk and the "comfortable" office temperature was just too cold for her.  Not that she would ever let on to Derick.  So at 9am sharp her sweater was off and her gloves hidden away.  "Just a sudden chill Mr. Black."
     Derick took one look at her, the vent above her head making her hair move ever so slightly in it's effort to keep the large reception area cool and nodded.  The next morning her desk had been moved and the outer office was now set to an often remarked upon seventy six degrees.
                                                                         Terry Kate - Romance in the Backseat   
Lavender had had all she could take. She fantasized about what it would be like to be Derick's lover. Her boss. Oh my gosh, what was she thinking. She heard the water cooler talk that he choose his women like some people pick out fine wine. He only chooses the best. She was far from it; at least in her mind. But damnit, she had enough. She has been dreaming of having those hands of his on her, having those lips touching her, and every other body part of his body touching her in ways she would only dream of for a very long time. Today, she was done dreaming.
Did he just admit to taking notice of her outfits. Did he just admit to wanting her; that knocked her for a loop. Wow. She secretly smiled on the inside.
When he went to stand, she thought she lost him and what was about to happen. But he was right, this could not happen here. Although, they say that this is where the fantasy begins. But he was right. She would fix that - now. If she gave into her desire, then they technically would not be "doing" anything in the office that was not officially unappropriated.
Her hussy came out when she spoke, "Derick, you are right, we are not going to do that here." She reached for his pants and his eyes widened. She undone the belt, button and zipper of his slacks. A boxer man, yum. "Sit down," she commanded. Derick's mind was reeling with every erotic dream he had of this woman. What happen to his quiet little secretary? Damn, was he dreaming this. Wasn't he the boss to order people around; and here she was calling the shots. But damnit if he didn't like it. Like it, hell if he was honest to himself, he loved it. Once seated, she proceeded to go down on her needs. Oh my freaking gods above, he died and went to Lavender heaven.

                                                                    Cecile - All I Want and More 
Derrick: It is the feeling of it, turning control over to someone else that can be the biggest turn on. I am a man in power all week long telling people what to do, barking orders and holding the fate of their future in my hands. And now, all of that is gone. I am sitting in my chair and following her commands, powerless. I know if I do not do as I am told, this will end; my desires left unfulfilled. I sit in the chair, the cool leather quickly warming under me. Her hands are on the tops of my thighs, and I can only see the back of her head. The smell of her perfume fills my nose, and her wet kisses travelling ever so close to where I want her mouth the most. Every fiber of my being is fighting to hold still...and do as I am told. The words flash through my head, and the dichotomy of my ego and her control is killing me.

Lavender: I am finally getting my wish. After all this time, all the moments spent wanting, clenched fists and thighs, I am finally getting what I want. What I need. Derrick has been omnipresent in my thoughts for weeks now, and I am finally going the scratch the itch that he has created so deep inside me. Desire has taken control, and my inner animal has taken over. I am telling my boss what to do, and he is complying. He sits in front of me, his expensive suit pants and his boxers around his ankles, his hands behind his back as I instructed. I am burning for his touch, and yet I make him wait just a moment more...

                                                                 Darren Michaels -  

Friday, October 9, 2009

Interview with Amber Green - Naughty... or Nice...

Goody, goody, or should I say naughty, naughty.  I would like to welcome Erotic Author Amber Green to the Backseat.
 

AG:  Thank you!
My husband says he likes the sound of that.
 

TK:  So your name is very colorful - does your writing match?
Hello to Mr Green too.
 


AG:  I hope so.  I love words.  My most recent work in print is a short novella More Than Memories, a story of the Living Stones.  Dick is an ass. Harry's anal. Obviously, they're made for one another. But scruples, and an unscrupulous vampire, come between them. What's a ghost with a geek-fetish to do?  This was my attempt at writing a story that would give the reader the same emotional overload combined with intellectual disjunction that one might get from watching Pulp Fiction. Unfortunately, something odd happened in the formatting.  And, since it's print, it's not easy to fix.  Other most recent is One Good Turn, first in the Turner & Turner stories.  It's not paranormal at all.  It's the story of Kendall Turner, who has only one person he can count on--Turner Scott.  But what does he do when the evidence seems to reflect Turner Scott can't be counted on?
 

TK:  You do like to play with words don't you?
 

AG:  I used to spend time reading dictionaries when I was a kid.
 

TK:  ME TOO!
 

AG:  One of my favorite possessions used to be the two-volume OED.
 

TK:  We have this great Dictionary from the 70's that my dad tried to throw it out once - buying a new one.  Mom and I kicked his butt then sat him down and made him compare the two.  Not all dictionaries are created equal.  Old one won. 
 

AG:  I hear you.  Right now I'm working on a story set in the Harlem Renaissance.  It's requiring rather a lot of research, but that's half the fun anyway.
 

TK:  So in your books- sounds like it is all about the boys?
 


AG:  Not in all of them.
The Harlem story is about a young woman who enters a threesome with a pair of guys.  My Huntsmen series with Loose Id has two m/f/m stories (Lights Out! and Backtrack)  and one m/m (Bareback).  Bareback caught rather a lot of flack because it centered on a bisexual and a man who had never faced the fact he had gay leanings.
Bareback remains my favorite story, though. It was so much fun to write--like when Joe is staring at a display of yogurts and wondering if he has to like yogurt now.  He tastes one, and decides it's still mayonnaise-flavored pudding.
I had a whole list of gay stereotypes, and managed to work every single one of them into the plot.
I love hiding Easter eggs in a story like that.
 

TK:  So does Mr. Green read your books?
 

AG:  He will read a scene at a time, though he isn't into the guy-on-guy sex.  I use his reactions to gauge the effectiveness of a scene.  If he doesn't get a joke, probably too many readers will miss it.  If he says "Great. Write more!" I know it needs more work.  If his breathing rate speeds up and he starts rattling the down key like that will make more lines appear, then slings off and says "Write MORE!" I know the scene's about ready to post for my crit group.
 


TK:  How big a role do your critique partners play in your decisions with a story?
 

AG:  I have a crit group, http://www.erauthors.org/  This gives me more pre-beta readers, each with less of a time or emotional investment than an actual crit partner might have.  They've inspired new stories (like Backtrack) but their role is mostly in telling me how to reach my goals.  (The lady who used to have her own Seeing Eye dog did talk me out of killing off a heroine's guide dog once.)  Others have helped with accents, or the mechanics of singing, or the scents and emotional feel of an area.  They enrich my writing in countless ways.

TK: So how hot are your books - if they were salsa what salsa would they be?

 
AG: Hmm... I'd have to say it varies. Most of them are quite graphic. I like a sex scene to explain where the characters are, both inside their own heads and in relation to each other. That requires a lot of work: choosing which details to mention, which to omit, and which to wallow in. I also have to watch the words a character would use. Do you want a sample? Loose Id picked part of a sex scene (part of Lorie's first sexual experience) as the excerpt for Lights Out!
I have pg-rated excerpts on my own website at http://www.shapeshiftersinlust.com/

TK: Amber Green thank you so much for taking the time to climb into the Backseat!


AG:  Thank you for asking me!

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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

On the Road to RomantiCon - by Kathy Kulig

Getting Ready for Writing Conferences


When Terry asked me to guest blog and write about what it’s like to get ready for a writers conference, my first thought was INSANE. I’m looking at stacks of papers spread out on my dining room table that need to be stapled—hand outs for one conference where I’m presenting a workshop. Upstairs, several loads of laundry need to be folded. I just returned from a vacation less than a week ago, so I dumped out my suitcase and started repacking it. Authors need to bring promo items to give away at book signings and leave on swag tables. I made some excerpt booklets myself to save a few bucks. Thankfully, I’ve been making them up all summer. I’m trying to condense the items into two small bags. Since I’m driving two other EC authors to RomaniCon, Cris Anson and Kathleen Coddington, luggage space will be limited. I also need to bring my laptop to squeeze in some writing time. Oh, and I guess it would be a good idea to practice the workshop I’m presenting so I sound like I know what I’m talking about. Let’s see, six and a half hour drive into Ohio, I’m driving, hmmm. Guess my passengers will have to listen to a lecture about Screenwriting for Novel Writers. It’ll help pass the time.


This month—I’m going to two conferences: RomantiCon Ellora’s Cave’s first Convention on October 9-12th (www.jasminejade.com/romanticon) and New Jersey Romance Writer’s PYHIAB Conference October 23-24 (www.njromancewriters.org).
For NJRW, I need to bring my own books to sign and I just had one (WILD JADE, Cerridwen Press) come out in print Wednesday. Yeah, rush order for NJRW, yikes. The folks at Ellora’s Cave are probably ready to hang me, placing an order for author’s copies days before RomantiCon.

Packing. Ha! Packing for writer’s conference can be quite interesting. Not just business casual clothes. At some conferences you may need to include items such as: purple lace corset, vampire satin cape, faery wings, 5-inch come-f**k-me-heels, faery dust body and hair glitter, etc. And if you go to Dragoncon, the costumes get even more elaborate.


I love writer’s conferences. They’re great fun. I get to meet readers, writers and other publishing professionals. I’ve learned so much through the various workshops and panels and made wonderful friends. Checking out the hot cover models is another perk too. If you’re going to either of these conferences please stop by my table at the book signing. You don’t have to buy a book, just say hi!


Kathy Kulig
Desert of the Damned @ Ellora's Cave

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Friday, October 2, 2009

Interview with Erotic Author Sabrina Darby

  I am so excited to welcome Sabrina Darby to the Backseat on this late Thursday night.
 SD:  Thank you.  I am excited to get to do this!
TK: Well didn't that sound naughty - tell me a little about your writing.
 SD: Well, I guess my writing is actually a bit naughty.  On These Silken Sheets, which released in September through Avon Red, is erotic romance.
TK:  I hear silk sheets are not the most practical bed linens.
 SD:  Hah!  Yes, I would agree with that.  And personally, I prefer high thread count cotton or flannel.  But my characters are not always the most practical.
TK:  So sexy characters are not just authors letting their true selves loose?
 SD:  Well, I think that depends.  I mean, there is some of me in every character, and every story.  Not that I don't let loose in real life...  I think every situation probably comes from a kernel of something that really happened.  Maybe I shouldn't have admitted that.
TK:  Ah...  Do tell...  What part exactly comes from this kernel?
 SD:  Haha.  Ok, let's see.  There are four novellas in the On These Silken Sheets and they take place in the Regency period.  I usually start with a contemporary idea or dilemma and then transpose it back.  So hopefully by the time it is a full story, it is very different from the original idea, and the original kernel.  Sometimes it is a character trait that starts me thinking, sometimes it is conflict between two people, and sometimes... it is a sexual situation.
TK:  Is it hard to translate modern situations back?
  SD:  It can be.  Actually, I did that again in a story I just finished and I am hoping I did it successfully.  Crossing my fingers while I wait and see.
But I think it might be harder the other direction.
I think of writing historical romance as being similar to writing formal poetry.  The constraints are part of what allows for creativity.
TK:  Was that a sexually liberated time in history?
  SD:  I would say the Regency was definitely more sexually liberated than the latter part of the 19th century.  But that isn't something you would necessarily think from reading Jane Austen.  I think in every era there is a subset of society that is more sexually experimental.  I also think there is a big difference between how a era is presented in its literature and media and what actually happens in the privacy of the bedroom.
TK:  How do you create female characters who are true to the time and still heroines modern readers can connect with?  If there were truly as many powerful and assertive women in history as there are in Romance Novels, I am not sure the world would look the same today.
  SD:  Really good question!  I tend to focus on quieter strength.  Out of the four heroines in the book, only one of them does something that is truly transgressive, but she doesn't escape the consequences of her actions.  In fact, that is the central conflict of the story.
  But this is where the constraints of the time force creativity--I need to find ways to make the heroines strong but in a real way.
TK:  A real way for a lady who wears a corset and whose life is controlled by men?
  SD:  Yes, exactly.
Luckily in the time period in which I write, the corsets aren't horribly constrictive!
TK:  Why then?
Why not 50 years earlier or later?   
  SD:  I'd say the early 19th century appeals to me because of the underwear (or lack thereof), the wars, the medical advances (because of the wars) and the politics of the time.   Also, it's modern enough that the characters are not that different than today, but still far enough in the past for me to have emotional distance.
I have a hard time writing contemporary romance. Or rather, I have a hard time romanticizing the present day.
TK:  Are you saying our work a day world, short on million and billionares - Harlequin can not convince me otherwise - is less then romantic?
  SD:  Haha.  I think that there are some amazing authors who spin those tales well.  But for my own personal escape, I like to read historical fiction, historical romance or fantasy with strong historical elements.  So, that's what I write as well.
TK:  Admit it - swords are just sexy.
  SD:  Haha.  Yes, they are.   Although most of the heroes in On These Silken Sheets are, ahem, lovers and might interpret "swords" a bit more broadly.
TK:  Broad are they?
Interesting - where can I find these broad heros?
  SD:  Hmm... at bookstores everywhere?  
TK:  Don't I wish...
Thanks so much for joining me and all the food for thought.
  SD:  Thanks for having me!  For news, giveaways, and a peek at the heroes of On These Silken Sheets, please come visit me at SabrinaDarby.com!

Thanks Sabrina!

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